Wednesday 17th April, 2009
Dear [firstname] your monthly newsletter in which we cover subjects, which improve the flowering of your heart. By means of embracing your sorrow in order to enjoy your life and the state your are in. Hans
What is Pride?
Pride is an emotional state of mind by which you have a high self esteem and you view yourself as skillfully or extremely important. You put yourself in the position of a TOP DOG. This can be in the area of wealth, beauty, power, education, skills, knowledge, status, attention, love or race. A perceived high self esteem compared to others who have less beauty, possessions, education, brains, skills and so on. You want to be special and loved all the time.
You have a tendency to be attached to yourself. You exaggerate an aspect of yourself and have completely identified with it. New information or know how is constantly evaluated by the mind whether it fits in your framework. From this respective you do not actually listen to what is said. Your mind pretends to have already everything it needs to know and is not interested in new information.
Deep inside you are very insecure. You are continuously informing others about your know how, skills, experience and so on. You are talking to yourself to convince yourself. You reject other individuals whatever they tell you. You give critics on the form and you lack to see the effort, dedication, love and contribution of others. You do not want to be surrounded by others and live isolated and separated. This is a strong suffering you do not want to feel.
You totally forget that all capacities, skills and things you have received from the universe up to now are not yours. You are not gratefully towards the universe and belief everything is yours. You operate from your head and criticize everything and everybody in order not to connect with your heart to your environment. You are afraid to move into your heart and feel your pain of separation.
You are easily made unhappy, because no one else shares the same exalted view that you have about yourself and so people surrounding you fail to show you the kind of respect and consideration you expect. You easily feel slighted or abused.
When is pride harmfully?
In the background pride persons steal life energy, because they can not create it by themselves. They try to break into your defense and steal your life energy (love) by means of strong critics, domination and manipulation. In the past they did receive extensive critics and identified with it. This could have been only for 1 minute and this program is running in their mind and rules their life. This low self esteem pain is addressed to persons in their environment who show love and respect. They perceive everything as critics and criticize back. As long as you take it personally it will hurt you. See it as a collective issue and it will not be harmfully for you.
Suggestions how to deal with pride persons:
- See it as an collective human mind problem
- Do not identify with the rejection aspect
- Stay in your power and do not contract
- Realize your love and care towards pride persons is not recognized, because pride persons are operating from the head
- Take a very close look at yourself whether there is a solid reason you are surrounded by pride persons. Are you pride?
- Make the pride person insecure by confronting with past mistakes and then tell them what you want to say to them
- Encourage the pride person to embrace the real problem situation from the past
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Below you can watch about 10 selected messages of Bhagavan. It will automatically switch to the next one. By rolling your mouse you can select the next video, put full screen or stop temporarily and read the newsletter. In case you click stop you get a list of titles you can select. Among others the titles Accepting Your Self and Setting Relationships right support this newsletter. (If you do not see the video player please Click here)
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Oneness Blessing calendar an receive it remotely
Oneness Blessing sessions are organized throughout the world. See Handy Links at the left column for every country. Every 2 weeks we organize an Oneness Blessing session in Haarlem Netherlands. If you live abroad or cannot make it, you can zoom into the session by meditating at around 11:45 hours, when the actual blessing giving starts. We suggest you to prepare in the following way:
- subscribe through the contact form and put in the message "remote oneness blessing"
- decide for which suffering you would like the Oneness Blessing to support you
- connect with attention and intention remotely with us
- Invite all you teachers and ancestors to come and help you
- realize you tried to solve your problem for ages on your own and you need Divine grace
- do some yoga exercises
- do some mantra exercises like Dyana Mantra
- sit down and receive the Oneness Blessing remotely
Any questions or request please let me know through the contact form.
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Web site video information
On the homepage of www.oneness4all.eu we offer a selected set of video messages of Bhagavan, Anandagiri, Oneness Temple information and music. Everyone interested into Oneness Blessings should watch these videos. They are a great source of connecting with Amma and Bhagavan.
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2 Non Logical child decisions
On the web site 2 new pages are added about my "personal" process as of October 2008 Level 2. The magic words of Bhagawan "Just look at it" have been daily put in practice. Practice what you preach has lead to the discovery of one extreme painful event at the age of 8 years old. To cope with the pain 2 Non logical child decisions were taken at that time and strong repetitive compulsory patterns in life as a result. Read them as an example of how the process works.
Between Level 2 and Oneness Weekend.
Oneness Weekend and Non Logical Child Decisions